Here are a few ideas to keep in mind for erotic massages.

Erotic massages don’t need to always start and end in the bedroom.  Simply giving your partner a shoulder rub or sensual foot rub can be very pleasurable and erotic.

Erotic massages involve intimacy, eroticism, and nudity.  Creating a sensual mood is important when giving and receiving a massage.  Take time to prepare candles, incense, and fragrances.

Communicate with your partner and maintain good eye contact during the massage.  The deeper the bond you have, the bigger the bond you create during the massage.

For the massage, use slow rhythmic strokes using the right amount of pressure your partner desires.  Leave the intimate areas to the end so you can build suspense and make the massage that much more sensual.

At the end of the massage, make sure to gently caress your partner and express your care for them.

When going to a massage parlor, massage patrons are virtually invulnerable to charges.  Keep this in mind when trying to negotiate for services.

Before the session starts, take off your clothes and negotiate the type of service and price.  The key is that it’s your job to say what kind of sexual services you want and how much you’re willing to pay.

Massage parlors that offer full services, they have a locakable door to ensure privacy.  Massage parlors with curtains or beads in the doorway will most likely only give you a normal massage.

Here are some other tips to help find the massage services you’re looking for.

- Any massage parlor that advertises in the sports section of a newspaper or periodical offers some sort of sex.

- Massage parlors that stay open later (past 9 P.M) offer sexual services.

- Almost all Asian or Oriental spas offer at least manual hand releases (aka hand jobs).

- It’s note worthy that many massage parlors only offer “full service” to repeat customers to ensure their safety against law enforcement.  If the girl was nice and the massage was good, it might be worthwhile to ask when she is working again so you will be recognized as a repeat customer with the same girl.

If you’re getting an erotic massage, having an erection is a easy sign for the masseuse to know you are turned on and can offer any extra services you and her agree to.

Just remember it’s perfectly normal to get an erection during any kind of spa from any kind of massage therapist since massages are so stimulating and often feels erotic.

If you’re looking to find an erotic massage parlor, one of the easiest ways to find one is by looking up “massage” in the yellow pages.  There are two separate massage sections in most phone directories, one for massage and one for massage therapists.  The massage section is filled with massage parlors while the massage therapists are reserved for licensed massage therapists who perform 100% legitimate massages.

Now take a closer look at the listings and advertisements in the massage section.  Massage parlors like to use the following words: parlor, sauna, acupressure (not acupuncture), table shower, body shampoo, and stress relief.  Also, listings that contain Asian or exotic words such as Pearl Orient, Asian Flower, or Rainbow Massage, are most likely massage parlors.

Listings that contain incall or outcall are probably full service.  For the other establishments, you probably won’t be able to find out if they’re full service or hand job only just by the advertisement.  The best advice is to visit a few massage parlor review websites and read about other clients visits.

Another resource is the MassageParlors411.com erotic massage parlor directory.

If you’re looking to get a happy ending the next time you’re in a massage parlor, you need to make sure you’re in the right “kind” of establishment before asking for a happy ending. Make sure to use these tips so you can leave happy.

1. Find a massage parlor that uses sexy girls in their advertisements. If you look at the back of any newspaper, you’ll find plenty of massage parlors with young and sexy girls in the ads. These places are obviously selling “something” so it’s a great place to start.

2. Call the massage parlor you’re interested in and ask what percentage of their clients are men and women, how many “massage therapists” are on staff and ask about pricing, tipping arrangements, services offered, etc. Based on their answers, you can tell if you have a green light for a happy ending or not. If the vast majority of their clients are men, you’ve probably found the right place. However, if the place sounds very legitimate with a plethora of spa treatments, you should look elsewhere.

3. Most of the time, the shady massage parlors are typically Asian named and/or themed. When you get to the establishment, they’ll usually have to ring a buzzer to gain access and then greeted by a “mamasan” who will initially take the massage fee from you.

Once inside the massage room, do not ask for sex or if they offer any sexual services. Go ahead and get the massage and other services such as table massage and then get some money and lay it on the table. Prices vary for whatever service you want, but she will get the hint you’re looking for extra services by presenting the money. Say you want everything, and then enjoy the services.